Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Turkish men are affectionate...with each other

If you know me, you know that I love observing dating, sex, relationships, and friendships.  I've discovered that Turkish men are quite affectionate with each other.  I don't see as many couples holding hands or canoodling, but I do see a lot of men with arms around each other and air kiss greeting each other.  In a purely platonic way.  The two men pictured below are linked arm-in-arm, and it's not an uncommon sight. 

I'm all for some male-on-male action, but I am curious as to why the affections aren't as emphasized with coed relationships.  I wonder if it has to do with the Islamic religion that dominates this country combined with the patriarchal society.  I know there has been a lot of gender modernization in this country in that last century, but it does not go without noticed that approximately 30% of the women are still covered.  Not something I'm used to seeing, but I do sense some gender changes similar to what went on (and has been going on) in China for the past decade. 

In the meantime, it's nice to find bromance taken to a whole new level!

1 comment:

Rej said...

Bromance! Yes, it's alive and well. I'm of Turkish heritage... born and raised in the Bay Area, California. Your observations were ones that I also made during my visits. Both genders tend to show their affection for each other outwardly... pretty common to see guys arm-in-arm. I've seen female friends do the same. The bro-kiss... cheek to cheek kind of greeting...it's not too much different than how people greet each in Central and South American countries (although if it's a bro-kiss, then usually done between familial youths and elders).

Your post made me think about a potential connection between gender-gender public displays of affection and religion. I imagine there's a link... but there's a much more obvious link between religion and the lack of public displays of affection between men and women.

Thanks for the post!